Bulletin Articles
At First Glance
“At first glance” is a common expression we use. Typically in situations where we are describing our initial impressions of something we saw or experienced.
The first glance is often pretty good. Whatever it was caught our attention in such a way that it stopped us in our tracks, forcing us to get a second look at it. But upon closer examination, we realize what we are really looking at.
But if we just make our assessment of something based off of the “first glance”, we are likely not getting an informed idea of what that thing really is. This is true in so many areas of life. Take purchasing a car for instance. At first glance, we see the color that we like, how nice the rims look, and how cold the A/C blows. But if we are willing to take the second glance, we see the rust on the wheel wells, hear the squeaking of the serpentine belt, and smell the burning of oil.
How do I avoid making decisions based off the first glance? And obviously we are not just talking about financial decisions (although they apply). But when my kid comes and asks for something or to go spend time with some new friends? Or when someone starts teaching things I have never heard before?
Proverbs 18:17 says, “The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.” The wisdom from the Proverbs suggests we need to be asking others to aid us in our decision making. What might sound good to me based off of a first glance might be a real problem for my brother or sister who comes and “cross-examines”!
What does that mean for us? It means we need to start calling our brethren. Get their advice, share your experiences, and ask them to come get a glance at whatever it is you are hearing, seeing, or wanting to do.
Proverbs 11:14 - “Without guidance, a people will fall, but with many counselors there is deliverance.”
God has blessed us here at Fishers with an abundance of counselors. What excuses will we use to avoid calling on them and seeing their guidance?
